Rachel's father, Joey Travolta, is a special education teacher. He started inclusion films to help individuals with developmental disabilities learn critical job skills. As she mentioned, they were looking for someone to do a short story on for the Phoenix Suns autism night. Kerrie responded that she has "thee PERFECT kid for your story."
"His name is Jayen Hochstein. Jayen is 7 years old, has both autism and epilepsy and is non-verbal. His father is in the US Air Force and his amazing mom is on my AZANOW Board. Jayen LOVES basketball. He has been playing in an adaptive league with the City of Surprise for the last 2 years, but just last month, his mom took a chance and signed him up for a regular league. Jayen is doing awesome in his new league and new team. His teammates and coach have all welcomed him with open arms and he is having the time of his life. I think this young man would be perfect for what you are looking for. Jayen has also had multiple brain surgeries and is delayed in many areas, but he has made so much progress in so many ways. He is an inspiration to me, to my son (who also has autism) and many others every single day."I was blown away by her words! Thank you Kerrie for suggesting Jayen and presenting him with this amazing opportunity.
That night I responded to Rachel's email and said we would be interested. The next morning she called and asked if I would share a little bit about him. I didn't know where to start! How do you talk about the whirlwind that has been the last 7 years of our life? I mentioned that he has epilepsy and was recently diagnosed with autism. (I knew her cousin, John Travolta's son, had autism but I didn't realize he died of a seizure.) I gave the brief story of how recently we knew Jayen wanted a little more than what Buddy Sports could offer and we were debating about putting him on one of the regular youth teams. How we took a huge leap of faith and put him on a team with neurotypical peers. We talked about how he screams when he hears our neighbor outside playing basketball and begs to go play with this adult man whom he feels equal with. I had so much I wanted to tell but couldn't get it all out and didn't want to waste all of her time. She was very interested and wanted to share his story with her dad. I was so grateful for the opportunity just to talk with her and learn more about Inclusion Films. If they actually picked Jayen it would have been the cherry on the top.
The very next day, I received another email from Rachel asking if I had a video of Jayen playing basetball. My response, "That's a silly question. Of course I do!" with a youtube link to a couple videos.
A few more emails went back and forth for the next couple days. I sent some more pictures of Jayen playing basketball. I completely forgot about our times in the hospital and all we could get Jayen to do was play basketball from his hospital bed. I had never really stopped to think about how much he really does love basketball, but man do I see it now! I don't know that there were many times he hasn't had a basketball in his hands. There were even pictures of Jayen on our back deck in Nebraska with at least 6 inches of snow covering everything and he was still out there shooting hoops.
Last night, I received an email from Rachel asking me to call her when I got a chance. They had met with the Phoenix Suns and loved Jayen's story. They want to come film his last City of Surprise basketball game, interview both Matt and myself, as well as his coach. They would also like to invite Jayen to be the ball boy for the Phoenix Suns vs Boston Celtics game on March 5th. They would be there to film these events then it would all be played on their autism night game in April.
I couldn't stop smiling. I tried to hold my excitement and not sound like a giddy school girl, but this was so cool. So crazy. So surreal. I hope and pray Jayen will enjoy this. I hope the excitement isn't overwhelming for him. I pray that this is as magical as I feel this could be for him!
So if anyone wants to join us on March 5th for the Phoenix Suns vs. Boston Celtics, we think you might recognize the cutest ball boy you have ever seen!
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